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Every October, we are reminded how breast cancer has touched our lives. Whether you are a survivor or have a friend or relative who is, you don’t have to look very far to see that this disease is part of your life. Cancer does not discriminate based on race, socio-economical status or religion. It touches us all at some point along our journey.

I recently attended a luncheon hosted by The Moms honoring breast cancer survivors. The guest included Tony and Emmy award winning actress Kristen Chenowith, Dr. Elizabeth Chabner Thompson, Debbi Musen and Dee Dee Ricks. Each of these women talked about their personal battles and victories with breast cancer.

Unfortunately, Chenowith, did not sing; however, she talked about her mother’s fight with breast cancer.

Dr. Thompson took what could be described as a very radical approach to breast cancer and had a double mastectomy even before she was diagnosed with breast cancer. As a practicing radiation oncologist with a family history of breast cancer and several warning signs of her own, she says she knew enough about what was coming her way and took matters into her own hands.

Dee Dee Ricks, a survivor and patient advocate, really opened my eyes to the major discrepancy in accessible care for patients. Ricks, once considered one of Wall Street’s most powerful women, was diagnosed with breast cancer. She created a documentary film called "The Education of Dee Dee Ricks," which will air on HBO on Oct. 2. In the film, Rick meets another woman with the same diagnosis but with considerably less means. The outcomes for each woman are completely different.

All of these survivors are doing their part in raising awareness and funds for the cause. Martini, an event sponsor, presented Chenowith with a $10,000 check to her charity, Maddie’s Corner, which in turn contributed to the Breast Cancer Research Foundation and Right Action for Women. Dr. Thompson founded, BFFL Co. (Best Friends for Life), a company whose mission is to improve patients' experiences. Funds from the sale of Rick's DVD will go to Mammovan.

So, how are you going to make a contribution to the cause this month? Maybe it is a monetary donation that supports breast cancer research and treatment. Or maybe you can help support a friend by calling her, dropping a note in the mail, cooking for her or helping in any way that you feel helps her through her day. Whatever you decide, do something to show your support for the women - our friends, relatives and co-workers - who are in the fight of their lives.

You can read more about D.J.’s adventure in the Big Apple at www.djduckworthyoga.com/blog Follow her on Twitter @mrsdjduckworth and on Facebook. D.J. is a contributing writer for New York Family magazine.